If you find it difficult to approach pretty women and ask them for a date, you can – if you prefer – contact women who advertise themselves on the Internet using email (which avoids potentially humiliating face-to-face rejections) or let an introduction agency arrange introductions for you. However, this really limits your choices because many gorgeous, single, Asian women – perhaps the majority – simply do not join marriage/introduction agencies or advertise themselves on the Internet. Of the 400-500 women that I dated in Asia, I met only a handful through personal ads, agencies or on the Internet.

Asian women can seem more approachable than many Western women because they are naturally friendly, smile a lot more and use more eye contact, and many of them are interested in Western men. But if you want to meet the "purest" and often the prettiest Asian women, you have to look for them in places most foreign men wouldn't even think of. Of course, this has to be done in the right way, and this book will show you how and where (if I could date many non-"professional" Asian women this way and without trying too hard, so can you).

Unfortunately, the only Asian women that most Western men ever meet and date in Asia are either bargirls or those from marriage agencies (and without this book, these are the 2 main options open to you!). They are missing out on so much simply because they don't know how or where to meet the loveliest, classiest and often most traditional ones − millions of whom are dying to meet a nice Western guy, but have no chance to do so, or are too proud or shy to join marriage agencies or post their photo on the Internet. Many would be flattered by the right approach by a presentable man, but most young "decent" Asian women are very shy, and they aren't going to approach you!

There is a lengthy section in the book that will help you gain self-confidence and teach you how to approach women of any nationality, with special "Dating Do's and Don'ts" for Asian women. If you follow the program, you might be amazed at your newfound confidence and success with women! It won't happen overnight, but practicing these proven techniques in Asia will speed up the process – and you'll be surprised by how much fun you'll have! In short, your shyness with women will likely evaporate in Asia.