There is plenty of information and advice in the book for men looking for more serious relationships with "decent" Asian women – including advice on marrying them. Since the vast majority of these women do not frequent bars, the book provides tips on other places to meet them, including natural-sounding pick-up lines that will not make you look foolish or scare them away!

If you are thinking of marrying an Asian woman, the cautionary advice in this book could save you from heartache, a financial beating, or coming home one day to find your wife and children gone, never to be seen again – something you probably couldn't imagine in the initial stages of a relationship with your "dream girl." This "warts and all", sometimes politically incorrect guide to Asian women doesn't pull any punches. Asian women have many excellent qualities, but not all of them are angels. While no one can promise you a happy marriage, this book point outs the pitfalls that can occur if you marry an Asian woman - especially the wrong kind!

Are introduction & marriage agencies the best places to find an Asian wife? Some men are "over the moon" with women they have met this way; less fortunate others have been left high and dry and feeling bitter from the experience. Whether or not you'll meet your ideal woman through an introduction/marriage agency depends largely on your luck and skill at judging a woman's background, character, sincerity, motives, and long-term compatibility with you.

However, if you want to meet younger women with above-average looks by this method, you will be competing with many other men for your chosen one's heart. Introduction and marriage agencies make money by selling women's addresses to as many men as they can. The most attractive women may receive hundreds of letters from men all over the world.

Some agencies say they drop a woman's profile from their website or catalog if she becomes "too popular." But why would they do that, if a good-looker is selling like hotcakes and generating a steady stream of cash for the owners of the agency?
If you limit your options to meeting women in this way, you will be just one of many men that a really cute Asian woman can pick and choose from. Also, the woman you choose (and spend a lot of money to fly and meet) may not tell you about the other guys she has met before you, or still corresponds with. In short, she'll be looking for her best option. If she has dozens of guys to choose from, the advantage will be with HER, not you (unless you're young, rich and handsome, and can write an introduction letter that sweeps her off her feet).

So, if you don't mind competing for Internet or mail-order agency beauties with many other men (because it's so simple and easy to contact them from our computers or choose from a catalog), or if you are content to correspond with older, plainer, and probably divorced, women who don't get many replies but are looking for a husband to financially support them and their kids - fine! But I can show you other ways (based on personal experience and described in the book) to meet young, beautiful, single and childless, "decent" Asian women, with little competition from other men. In my opinion, these are - in general - the best women you can hope to meet because (1) their motives in wanting a Western boyfriend or husband are less likely to be mainly financial; (2) they are less likely to be desperate; and (3) they won't have a string of other male admirers around the globe competing for their affection. Consequently, they don't have the arrogance that comes from being "spoiled for choice."

Follow the advice in this book, and YOU will be the one
who is "spoiled for choice"!

If you want to meet Asian women through introduction agencies, including those on the Internet (and I recommend that you use this method of introduction only as one option among many), this book provides tips on writing to them (and what NOT to write!), how to make your letters stand out, and how to spot opportunists and scams when contacting women by this method.

If you are looking for an Asian wife, you will learn that some of the women who join marriage and introduction agencies are, or have been, prostitutes/bargirls, regardless of what assurances these agencies give you. They simply haven't got the time or resources to screen everyone, but you can learn to recognize such women. Again, the book will give you some general tips to help you avoid unpleasant surprises.